It's not so popular anymore, but Sh*t People Say was a common meme back in 2012 (oh so long ago). They highlighted some of the awkward ridiculousness white people say to black people , or people say to transracial families , or crazy girlfriends say to their boyfriends . A recent conversation discount florida hotels reminded me of those videos.
A married lady, another single girl, and I were together at a conference. They were sharing a giggle over all the good-looking guys walking around. The married woman kept pointing out guys she thought especially cute, "How about that one? I could set you up with him."
Until then, I'd wanted to steer clear of the conversation, but this I couldn't let go. A little more hotly than I should've, I said, "Well, I'd disagree with the assumption that I'm not as happy as someone who's married."
discount florida hotels This always feels like a similar trap to the question, "Have you stopped beating your wife?" Neither yes or no works as an answer. Similarly, it often feels like single folks are being asked, "Are you happy being so lonely?" It's rare for the statement, "I'm quite contented and happy being single" to be met with belief.
The overwhelming message of Christian culture is that marriage is the only path to true happiness and fulfillment (especially for women). In general, evangelicals are sorely lacking in role models for what it means to lead a contented, celibate life. Sadly, I know men and women happy with a life of singleness who were pushed towards marriage because it seemed like the only legitimate option for someone who wanted to lead a full, God-honoring life.
I was blessed with good Christian, single role models who lived joyful, contented lives of service. I think this is a main reason I find myself single and happy to be so. The times I have deeply questioned this "status" or found myself unhappy with it have often been when others indicated discount florida hotels to me it I would not be enough unmarried.
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